29. Homecoming Series, Part 4: A Decade of Sobriety — 10 Lessons for Joyful Living

Sep 23

Ten years sober. A whole decade of lessons, growth, and coming back home to myself. 🎉 In this episode, I’m celebrating this milestone by sharing the 10 biggest ah-ha’s from my sobriety journey.

This isn’t a polished recovery story. It’s the messy middles, the radical self-compassion, the surprising power of boundaries — and how choosing not to numb became the doorway to Joy.

Because here’s the truth: it’s not just about addiction. It’s about the courage to feel.

In this episode, we cover:

10 lessons from a decade of sobriety
Breaking free from self-punishment
Turning shame into a catalyst for change
Boundaries as an act of self-love
Befriending yourself (imperfections included)
Daily practices that anchor you back to alignment
And the reminder that your real “home” is yourself

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